Monday, August 23, 2010

Am a youth ,i need ur advice on how i can choose a life partner?

I mean i have been dating but guys cheat on me ,how will i know the person that love me and how can i choose my life partner without any mistake .


Is it the right thing for a lady to allow a guy to have sex with her before they wedded together .


As a single what are those things I shouldn't do so that a guy will not guilt me .





Thank you. Am a youth ,i need ur advice on how i can choose a life partner?
It is important to find someone with whom you can create a good relationship from the outset... Sexual attraction blinds you to the thousands of little things by which relationships eventually survive or fail... You need to find a way to see beyond this initial overwhelming physical fascination...Truly fortunate partners manage to become longtime friends before they realize they are attracted to each other... They get to know each other鈥檚 laughs, passions, sadnesses, and fears... They see each other at their worst and at their best.... They share time together before they get swept up into the entangling intimacy of their sexuality.
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  • If you and a colleague share the same boss what would your reaction and advice be to them if that colleague ca

    If you and a colleague share the same boss what would your reaction and advice be to them if that colleague came to you in confidence and said the boss had exhibited inappropriate behavior.If you and a colleague share the same boss what would your reaction and advice be to them if that colleague ca
    Advise your colleague to report this to Human Resources or the bosses boss.If you and a colleague share the same boss what would your reaction and advice be to them if that colleague ca
    it isnt your business , the colleague has to take care of it themselves.
    The proper thing would be to send them to Human Resources.

    What's the best truthful relationship advice book?

    I need one for a university essay in Psychology.What's the best truthful relationship advice book?
    one written by dr ruth or dr phil

    Do you have any new puppy advice?

    I'm getting an 8 week old standard poodle this Sunday. I have a 4 year old standard poodle already who is still missing his brother that died of cancer a few months ago.





    What can I do to help both dogs with this transition? Any new puppy advice?Do you have any new puppy advice?
    I introduce them outside, in case someone has to pee. Give the older dog time, they like puppies better after teething and when the puppy gets a little bigger. here are some tips, use what helps.


    I use a crate* to potty train with, but only for potty training and then I break it down and store it. I put blankets and a small food and water dish in the crate. Dogs don't potty where they eat and sleep. When they are first little, I only expect them to hold their potty for 4 hours, and then 6 hours, then 8 hours and so on. So when they are first little, I set a timer or alarm clock to wake myself up at night to take them *out. I only allow my puppy in the bedroom* or the living room, only one room at a time. They have to graduate to more space. If I allow them to have full run of the house, it will overwhelm them. I take them out the same door each time. I tie a dinner bell to the door handle. Do not use a jingle bell as they could get their toe caught in it. So when they are little, I ring the bell for them, and then open the door to go *outside to potty. When they get bigger, I take their paw and whack the bell and open the door to go potty. Eventually getting to the place where the puppy will ring the bell and let me know when they need to go potty. Dogs want to please you, so it is your job to let them know what behaviors please you and what doesn't. So when my puppy goes potty, I give her a treat*, and clap, and make a fuss and praise her. So she learns that going potty outside makes me happy. If she has an accident, make a disgust sound like “tsst” and take her out right away. I never yell* or spank* my puppies. Take them out when they first wake up, after they eat or drink, before nap, finish romping, when their activities change, or when they are sniffing around. Some puppies go pee right away, but may not go poop until 10 minutes later, so wait for the poop. I have a little play time here, because sometimes I think they are done, and they are not. Puppies train at their own pace. While I may have a puppy that hasn't had an accident in several weeks, I don't let my guard down. I don't expect my puppies to be ';fully potty trained'; until one-year-old. If they have a setback, shake it off, and start over. I only have my puppies in the crate when I am not watching them. When I am sleeping, cooking, ironing, doing chores, basically when I am not watching her. All other times, she is out of the crate practicing being a ';big girl.'; This is the time I train her how to behave in the house. So we are practicing ';no barking';, 'no biting';, ';no jumping';, and ';don't eat the furniture.'; I also have to practice ';playing inside'; so she doesn't knock over things. You must keep the puppy in sight when they are little because they don’t know the difference between newspaper and carpet, and you don’t want them sneaking off and getting into trouble. Some puppies can sleep through the night around 3-months-old, but their bladder is grown around 6-months-old.





    REVISIONS:


    *I use a CRATE to train with. It is the method I prefer, compared to other methods I have tried. I noticed that if they are in the crate, while I am doing chores, they are o.k., because the crate allows them to see me and be re-assured. The crate can also be a comfort when stored in the basement for dogs who live in areas where thunderstorms and tornados are an issue. . However, use the method that works best for you.....a laundry basket, a cardboard box, a woof-woof house, x-pen, child gates, whatever works for you.


    *OUTSIDE, pee pad, litter box, whichever method you are using. When the puppy is first little, keep the pee pad, litter box near the food and water dish, so the puppy can eat and drink, and then go potty. You can move it away as they get older. The pee pad has a scent that smells and initiates potty. Sometimes a pee pad makes a sound that scares some puppies, so you might want to use a litter box if that happens. The pee pad allows a puppy to walk around, but a litter box keeps the puppy in one place.


    *BEDROOMS, I use the bedroom and living room for training, because it works for me. Choose rooms that work for you, but watch for rooms that are damp, or drafty. While my puppies sleep in the bedroom during training, once they are trained, I let them sleep where they want to. They don't have to sleep in the bedroom forever.


    *TREATS. While I use treats for training, you don't have to. I like Charlee Bears for training (a little cracker for a little mouth,) I use them for training, but once they are trained, I cut back on them.


    *SOME PUPPIES will go potty in the same spot each time. Some puppies have to be told to go potty. A command like ';go out'; for pee, or ';go finish'; for poop, might work for you, keep saying “go finish” until the puppy poops. This is a good thing to train if you travel with your dogs. By using commands, the puppy won't get confused when you are visiting someone, on vDo you have any new puppy advice?
    first things first - introduce the two somewhere nuetral - not in your 4 YO's territory. have one person hold the new puppy's leash and another hold the oler one's. approach slowly and allow sniffing if there is no sign of aggression. always be sure you can withdrawn one or the other if a problem developes.If everything is smooth let them have time to really get aquainted before you take them home. you may have to keep them seperated at home for a while too, depending on how thing go. the 4 YO may not appreciate having to teach the puppy real dog manners but then again he may be ok (especailly if the pupy is a girl).





    It is great to have an older dog around the puppy if they get along. the young one can learn alot and copy the adult's behavior.





    Congratulations!

    Ok umm so i took the advice from the previous?

    How do i get the tv remote unstuck from up there?Ok umm so i took the advice from the previous?
    Don't worry, you've got 3-7 days to figure something out.











    kitchen tongs?Ok umm so i took the advice from the previous?
    Why do you want to remove it?


    I thought you wanted to stop the blood coming out.


    Just leave it in there.
    Haha sometimes! Idk get some help get some pliers or summin
    Should have listened to me and used the mop bucket.
    Let the horse get it out.
    pee it out, im telling you to use sham wow it works lol
    Just leave it!


    I lives there now...
    take my penis in there u slut

    Can anyone give me some advice with staph infections?

    I have a staph infection that will not go away,once one heals i get another one,i dont have ins. so there for i cant go to the hospital to get medicine.im a single mother and i dont have a job at the moment.so if anyone knows any home remedies that would be great!!! thanks for readingCan anyone give me some advice with staph infections?
    simply put....you are colonized with staphylococcus.


    Colonization means that the person harbors the organism without causing actual infection.


    People who are colonized usually gets it in their nose or pharynx. They develop recurrent skin abscesses when they touch/clean their nose. They will harbor the bacteria in their fingers and they auto-inoculate themselves (i.e. scratching).


    Stopping this cycle requires Mupirocin ointment to the nose and bactericidal soap (Phisoderm, phisohex, hibiclenes etc)





    ....trust ze doctor! ;)Can anyone give me some advice with staph infections?
    if it wont go away it is resitant to antibiotics you are taking, you need difrent ones, also ask your doctor to take a swab to find what it is senistive to so you can be treated approiatly

    Why do admitted bi-sexuals like Happy-2 feel the need to give advice to straight couples?

    I mean this guy is hooking up with dudes and cheating on his wife but wants us to take his advice?





    PLEASE!Why do admitted bi-sexuals like Happy-2 feel the need to give advice to straight couples?
    I just laughed so hard my coffee came right out my nose!





    LMFAO!Why do admitted bi-sexuals like Happy-2 feel the need to give advice to straight couples?
    Honestly, it's an interesting question. Allow me to answer.





    When couples are secure enough in their relationships to allow extra-marital sex or other activity, they often have a stronger grip on reality. They aren't jealous, things are seen as they really are and not through rose-colored glasses (whatever the saying), and they live life with a certain acceptance of reality.





    I think it gives them a better point of view on what is actually occuring, and not a pipedream of some 22 year old two-month married girl who thinks life is a storybook adventure that works out perfectly.
    pretty much for the same reason that when a question such as ';men, why do you cheat?'; is asked, every woman needs to express their opinion, then when a guy tries to explain why, they immediately give them the thumbs down and say why he's wrong.





    this is an open forum and his answers are no more irrelevant than those provided in the above example.
    They THINK they are normal and really believe they have the answers. Did you read the one where the gay guy was so tired of picking up the pieces of his straight friends relationships because the women were so mean to the men that it turned them to hitting on him? I was RFLMAO!
    The sense of chaos in his life makes him feel he can calm some waters by ';giving others advice';...





    Personally, I'd ignore him.






    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!





    R O T F ! ! !
    Happy-2 is a great guy who has a lot of good things to say. Who ever said he was cheating on his wife?
    None of us are perfect.......
    So, what's your question? What advice is he giving? Cough up some details so we can actually give our thoughts. I left my mind-reading hat at home today.
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  • To dream a cat talks to you in a dream and gives you advice?

    I fed the cat first through my window then the cat felt comfortable then came in and started talking.





    the can was giving me advice on various situations.To dream a cat talks to you in a dream and gives you advice?
    I had something similar to that but mine wasnt a cat or advice.


    I had a dream I was in th Nugget Hotel/Casino for a friends wedding.(my grandparrents 50th anniversary was there) Well they showed me my room and warned about rats so gave me a cat to eat them if they became a problem.


    Well a rat popped out of the bed and started attacking my cat and sure enough killed it.


    Then it started attacking me so I fought back kicking it and hitting it but it wouldnt die it just attached to my leg and tried bitting me, so I grabbed a belt and beat it. Then it fell off, I jumped on the bed, turned on the tv, and relaxed.


    The rat then got up and started talking to me saying ';you know im going to get you right?'; so I said ';yea but for now...';


    then I woke up.











    In your situation I think that you are looking for guidance and need help on something but you need a comfortable situation to let someone tell you what to do.(instead of the cat feeling comfortable you actually did)To dream a cat talks to you in a dream and gives you advice?
    Normally dogs symbolize friendship and cat symbolizes freedom.


    In your case, if you have a pet as cat, that cat may symbolize some sort of friendship in you.





    Projecting cat talking and giving advice may reflect the need for support. This support about breaking through freedom in reality. You are feeling the need to share your situation with other people. Perhaps, in reality it is not easy to do so, and that is why you projected cat to do the job.
    Cat is Evil

    Can you give a beginner advice on hitting his irons and driver?

    I recently ended my baseball career and decided to take up a lifetime sport, golf. I have played one round of 18 holes and practiced at local fields hitting my irons. My friends commented on my short game when we played because I can hit the wedge, 9, and 8 straight and accurate.





    However, when I hit the 3 and 4 irons and driver my ball goes to the right. (I'm a righty). I also have a problem with hitting the top of the ball and hitting it right into the ground. I have taken practice swings and stopped at impact and my club is facing the way it would if I were trying to hit it to the right. How can I correct this? Like I said wedge, 8, and 9 I do not have this problem.Can you give a beginner advice on hitting his irons and driver?
    first off get rid of that 3 and 4 iron, only really good players can hit those consistently well





    secondly, the driver goes to the right because your opening the club face at impact





    try these tips to reduce that





    take your left hand on and roll it over until you can see the top three knuckles on your left hand





    if you are hitting the top of the ball, move it a little bit back in your stance, and remember to keep your head down





    make sure the hips finish the swing, and not the arms. if your arms come through without hips, the ball will slice everytime. let your hips lead your arms through





    i play twice a week, and never use my 3 or 4 iron except for knock-down punch shots





    use a 5 wood and 5 iron to replace those. either that orget like a 3-hybrid. that'll help you out alotCan you give a beginner advice on hitting his irons and driver?
    Go to my dad's place The Richland Golf Center in Huntsville Alabama. My dad is a PGA Golf Pro.
    work on your tempo. You are hiting you 8 %26amp; 9 irons well, probaqbly because you are not trying to kill the ball. just think about tempo, slow and smooth. all that other stuff you worry about on the sdriving range. Slow your swing down and work on your balance.

    What's would be your advice for dry, thinning, natural (not relaxed) African-American hair?

    What would be your advice for someone with this hair type that wants to wear their hair straight or natural? This person's hair is a little longer than shoulder-length. Also, it doesn't stay straight easily, even after flat ironing at a high temperature.





    Please give product %26amp; technique recommendations. I know what advice I'd give. I want to hear from others.What's would be your advice for dry, thinning, natural (not relaxed) African-American hair?
    i am half black.


    and i got a perm.


    but like,


    my hairs wavy.


    its healthy,


    and a lot easier to straighten now.


    its practically natural...


    thats my advice.


    but make sure u dnt straighten it more than once.


    or it will dieeeeee.


    GRAWWWR.What's would be your advice for dry, thinning, natural (not relaxed) African-American hair?
    Go to a salon and ask for an advice from a hairstylist or a hair expert. There are the ones who knows everything we need to know about how to take care of this matters. And a quick tip after you've done taking a bath brush your hair with a large comb especially designed and made for curly hairs. Lastly apply conditioner everyday for a successful and beautiful result.
    This person needs to deep conditon their hair, conditoner wash, do oil rinses, comb less, not brush, shampoo when its needed, and look up websites that help with natural african american hair.
    you should use pink morterizer sold in wal mart and other stores try not to use curling irons or any thing that would heat up your hair or go to a good hair dresser he/she would tell you what to do

    I am a psychology student trying to get a entry level job in the field while I am still in school. Any advice?

    What position in a hospital or rehab (i am specializing in addictions) should I apply for?I am a psychology student trying to get a entry level job in the field while I am still in school. Any advice?
    You could apply for position as a :





    1) counselor or counselor aide in a hospital


    2) counselor in a long-term residential addiction treatment center


    3) group home coordinator


    4) residential youth counselor or coordinator


    5) rehabilitation advisor


    6) case worker





    You need to get as many certifications as you can if you want to specialize in substance abuse--check out the Association for Addiction Professionals (NAADAC) for what you should be working towards: http://naadac.org/





    Here's some other positions people have gotten with a psychology degree (that are medical/social service related):





    1) social service director


    2) hospital patient service representative


    3) behavior analyst


    4) director of volunteer services


    5) child protection worker


    6) employment counselor


    7) employee counselor





    Good luck!I am a psychology student trying to get a entry level job in the field while I am still in school. Any advice?
    Try checking with the court and prison system, they will often take anyone they can get cheap.
    Ask your professor. Get yourself a mentor. Halfway houses offer internships and your state or county council on addictive diseases may be able to assist you.
    It is good that you are specializing in addictions. However you are not going to make any money in the field of psychology until you have spent $100,000 dollors for a masters and then attain a Doctorate then write books and do research. Trust me I know from personal experience. Get out of the freakin field while you can. It is a dead end unless you get a Doctorate or know somebody who is going to get you on at a good paying job. There aren' t any ';jobs'; for a psych major. Don't believe me. Do a job search and see if psychology is listed under occupations. Get a degree in business or computer science. You can get a B.S. and start out at $40K a year. Use your earnings to invest and do not collect debt because you have all that extra spending money. Or on the other hand if you are one of those ';I can save the world'; types. 1. You will be disappointed more than rewarded. 2.You will also be saving the world making $10,000 a year dollars with a B.S. in psychology with $30,000 of school debt. You do the math. You can volunteer in you spare time if you want to save the world.

    What is the most important advice you could give?

    regarding how to maintain a good relationship/marriage?What is the most important advice you could give?
    Love yourself for who you really are before you try to share yourself with someone else. You have to not only know yourself but love yourself as well before you can let someone else fully love you.





    Realize that every relationship/marriage is different-don't compare yours to everyone elses'.





    Don't go to bed mad.





    Our house rule- no conversation before coffee!What is the most important advice you could give?
    If you have a problem - and there are many problems that arise in a relationship/marriage, face it and try to resolve it. The fear of disagreements is the biggest burden for a relationship/marriage. For two people living together, coming from different backgrounds and espousing different lifestyles, arguments are a natural consequence. And resolving such argument, even when facing hostility, is the only way to a contented relationship. You do 'this' for me and I will do 'that' for you. A trade-off.





    Check out my source and find a more detailed discussion on this subject in the book I recommend.
    I did a lot of studying and learned as much as possible about it before I got involved in dating someone. I especially learned what I could about marriage before getting involved in one. I learned that without Jesus Christ my marriage is nothing. He is my number one priority. John 15:5 says, '; I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.'; I hope this helps you.
    Open communication and being able to discuss anything under the sun together! Always have one another's back, and when you are down, be sure your partner tries to be up, and visa versa, expecially when you have kids around...they are little sponges and soak up 'how to be an adult' from watching your behavior! All behaviors! You never know when they are looking and listening, even though they 'seem to' be playing with toys in the corner, they get it thru the tones of voices!


    There is so much, this box is just too little!


    Let's have coffee and a chat! Best of luck, kiddo!


    Aunt Susie
    Be honest, and don't do anything that you wouldn't want to admit to your spouse. Communicate even if you don't want to talk about it. Forgive - never go to bed angry. Put the other first instead of always making sure you're getting your own needs met. There is no room for selfishness in a relationship!
    Treat eachother with mutual respect and put eachother first, everything should be 50/50 (including housework lol),





    Seth.
    Love the person from a point of understanding, being quiet so you can listen to them, forigveness and not being judgmental.
    communicate about everything. there is no such thing as a little white lie cuz chances are ur gona have to lie again to cover up the first lie. be honest and open.
    Make the other person your top priority. And observe them. If they don't value you, reassess your relationship.
    Make sure this person is not only a lover, but also a friend.
    Only marry someone you connect with:


    Emotionally


    Sexually


    Intellectually





    Also, always communicate and compromise...
    Compromise compromise compromise





    SteveC
    stay fit, stay attractive, and put out.
    respect, loyalty and honesty
    Never go to bed angry with eachother
    compromise and have sex a lot
    my dad always said, ';its cheaper to keep her'; lol

    I am interested in getting into pharmaceutical/cosmeceutical sales does anyone have any advice for me?

    I graduated in May with a bachelors in fashion merchandising and a minor in business administartion and will graduate again in December with a bachelors degree in marketing. I have a 3.28 GPA and I have just finished a internship with a newspaper company selling ads, to give me outside sales experience. I have worked in inside sales for 6 years. Do I have enough experience? Any advice that you could offer would be greatly appreciated! Thank You!I am interested in getting into pharmaceutical/cosmeceutical sales does anyone have any advice for me?
    as far as pharm sales goes you have some experience but do you have licensing? some states require you be licensed with the national pharmacy association or something like that, in order to sell pharmaceuticals. it's not something you can just jump into, nor will any company hire you if you don't have expereince. some will probably go off your previous sales experience and verify it, but it won't be easy to get into that field. cosmetics should be a cake walkI am interested in getting into pharmaceutical/cosmeceutical sales does anyone have any advice for me?
    Use your computer skills and search monster.com and careerbuilder.com daily. Just set up your job alert searches to include the word pharmaceutical. I understand that can be a very lucrative field. Sales of any kind requires a very high energy level, and a very low level of response to rejection
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  • Does anyone have or had a Guiena Pig for a pet,if so advice on rasing them my female just had babies?

    I love my guenia pigs,i started with a female%26amp;a male.They are now just as much a part of my family as my kids.My female just had 3 healthy babies on the 16th of July 2006.They are still with the mother but i am unsure what age to take them from the mother.Also what ,if any extra care does the mother need after having them.Does anyone have or had a Guiena Pig for a pet,if so advice on rasing them my female just had babies?
    You need to seperate the boys out in about six weeks. They will start eating regular food almost right away. But will still need mama for a bit. If you haven't already, you need to take out your male, or you will have another litter right behind this one. Having babies so close will be hard on your female.


    If you leave them all together for six months, you will have alot more guinea pigs. G.pigs are rodents, and develop quickly.


    I love G. pigs, they are a lot of fun and have quirky personalities. We love our G. pig. His name is Hunter, and he puts up with the kids carrying him around and holding him really well.


    Good luck with your babies. Baby G. pigs are some of the cutest little things. Little mini pigs. haha.Does anyone have or had a Guiena Pig for a pet,if so advice on rasing them my female just had babies?
    http://www.lienanimal.com/z_guineapreg.p鈥?/a> Hope this helps. Guinea pigs are so cute! Good luck!
    Well like most rodents, guinea pigs can become pregnant very soon after giving birth and the babies will inbreed once at sexual maturity so keep the boys and girls in different cages





    Info on reproduction -not best support site..


    http://www.guinealynx.com/reproduction.h鈥?/a>


    ---


    http://www.faqs.org/faqs/pets/guinea-pig鈥?/a>





    **You can handle the babies as soon as you like after the birth procedure is finished and the babies are all washed and dried by their mum. Handling from a very early age will help them to grow into happy piggies that are not scared of being held. You may want to wait until a day after the birth in case it distresses the mother - it depends on the pig.


    **The babies come out fully formed and will be running around very shortly after birth - they will obtain milk from their mother (who has two nipples) and will begin eating independently (pellets, hay %26amp; veggies) normally within a day or so. You will need to determin the sex of the babies by the time they are 4 weeks of age. The babies will suckle their mother's milk for about 4 weeks and should be weaned at about 4 weeks of age - which is when you should separate the male baby's from the females - you can leave the baby girls with their mother. You may want to put any baby males in with their father.


    **Don't forget that if you have male babies they are capable of breeding with their mother %26amp; sisters at about 4 weeks of age so make sure you separate the males from the females at 4 weeks. For the same reason be careful with the father, don't let him have access to the mother after birth or to the daughters after they are a few weeks old.
    Where do people come up with some of their answers. These webs will tell you all you need to know. Separate the male and female immediately.Scientific name Cavia porcellus


    Life span 3-4 years


    Potential life span 6-7 years


    Desirable environmental temperature range 65-75 F


    Desirable relative humidity range 40-70% (50% is considered ideal)


    Recommended age at 1st breeding male: 3-4 months; female: %26lt;3-7 months (not after 7 months)


    Length of estrous (heat) cycle 16 days


    Length of estrus (period during which female is receptive to male for copulation) 8 hours


    Gestation (pregnancy) averages 63-68 days


    Average litter size 3-4 young (range, 1-6)


    Age at weaning 3 weeks
    Leave them with her until they're about six months of age. Then sex and separate them. Just keep feed in the cage along with water. Mom and kids will do just fine without any extra trouble on your part.
    You can look at questions and ask questions to experts they have a lot of Guinea pig questions a lot of questions about baby guinea pigs too. Look at the site below you can choose for them to E-mail you when the expert answers your question. It will take you directly to different pets click on guinea pig and go to bottom of page enter question you will have to wait for it to be answered you can click a check in the box and they will E-mail you when it's answered.

    Hi, I would like to sell plants on ebay, does anyone have any advice on how to package the plant for posting.?

    you should grow them in somethink like vermiculite so you can send them just roots to save on postage costs, or if you grow them in soil you will have to plastic up the soil and rootball. i would get some clingfilm and wrap it round the root ball and soil and keep the plant slightly damp, and when posting loosly place the packing material round it, dont squash it down, and post in a fast delivery.Hi, I would like to sell plants on ebay, does anyone have any advice on how to package the plant for posting.?
    I've bought plants from ebay and mostly the packaging has not been good - plants arrive with new shoots broken, and sometimes the package itself is so tightly wrapped it's a real pain to open.





    Loads of cling-film and parcel-tape is best avoided if you don't indicate to the recipient how they can get inside the package without damaging the contents!





    I'd try the old-fashioned way: Gently Wrap the roots in wet / damp muslin. Or newspaper.





    If the plant is very delicate, a bit of cotton-wool put gently around it also helps.





    Then pop in a plastic carrier bag, blow air into it and tie a knot so the plant's protected in a cocoon.





    Gently but firmly tie a bit of thread (or use an elastic band)around the plastic bag (to hold the plant in place) around the roots.


    Then carefully bubble-wrap (one layer) ~ bit of sellotape to fix.


    Then brown paper to wrap. Sellotape to protect in case paper gets ripped.


    Clearly label package as: PLANTS: FRAGILE.





    Rethink: Shredded paper better than cotton wool!Hi, I would like to sell plants on ebay, does anyone have any advice on how to package the plant for posting.?
    Sorry but Rachellie is right, it is in fact illegal to put plants in the post ESPECIALLY if you are sending them overseas. Plants, like animals, carry diseases and need to be quarantined if being sent to other countries. If you send plants through the post without doing your legal homework then you risk being prosecuted. My personal opinion- stick to the boot sales as has already been recommended!!!! If you are insistent then call the DEFRA helpline for advice before you start, their number is 08459 33 55 77.
    Take the plant out of the soil if young and pack the roots in damp tissue inside a plastic bag. Put an outer of reinforced cardboard to stop damage in transit.


    If it is a mature plant tape the pot in a plastic bag so the soil cannot escape and put inside a rigid cardboard box that gives the growth enough room to not be damaged.
    it would be better to sell at car boots lots of people do even the market men i was told by one he makes more money there then markets
    your not allowed to..................

    For awhile now it has been my dream to become a famous actress, advice?

    I have been to theatre schools, had a lead in a play, been in an off broadway production, and done a voice over for an up coming movie. However I really want to crack into the buisiness, I know A TON of other people want this too and you probably think I am like everyone else, but I want this so bad.For awhile now it has been my dream to become a famous actress, advice?
    When did you have a lead in a play...but other wise...you go girlfriend!


    Come on choose me as best answer...i mean i am your best friend...=]For awhile now it has been my dream to become a famous actress, advice?
    Keep your head on straight and keep at it! Sounds like you're on the right track. Get to know everyone you work with, make friends, keep in touch with as many as possible. The more connections, the better.


    And stop looking in silly places for help, --like here.
    If you've had real training been in an off-Broadway production, it puts you ahead of nearly everybody else who posts that question here. Most of them want to be famous and skip the ';being an actor'; part.





    I'd love to say, ';Love the craft and don't worry about the fame';, but practically, the only way to become famous is to pursue it doggedly. Nearly everybody who tries, fails, but those who don't try fail even more often.





    First thing is that you have to decide on a career path: stage or screen. If it's screen, you have to move to LA. At least you come with a resume, which is better than 90% of the others in competition with you. You may even be able to get an agent, which is a huge boost.





    If you want to do it from the stage, stay right where you are. (I'm assuming you're already living in New York, since you've done off-Broadway. If not, move there.) And continue doing what you're doing: go out for every audition. Get your face known; casting directors like people whom they know to be reliable.





    Basically, that's the only formula: live where the auditions are, go to the auditions, and continue to get better in your craft so that you can do well at those auditions. Get a reliable agent, if you can, but you have to be a little famous to get that far. It's not guaranteed, but if it were guaranteed, you'd be in line with a million other people. (Look over the past questions to this group and you'll see that an awful lot of them are asking the same questions as you.)





    About the only trick I can offer, which isn't exactly a secret, is to get a web site up with your resume and head shots. Make it a good-looking web site. Put it in the bio of every role you get. It's the best way for an agent or casting director who sees you and thinks ';maybe'; to get a little bit more information without having to put in the effort of actually calling you. Make it easy for them, so spend some money on good head shots and good web site design.





    Or do the web design yourself. You may never get famous but maybe you can design web sites for other actors while you're waiting.





    (You have to take any advice I give with a grain of salt. I'm not famous. Unfortunately, you're never going to get any advice from those who have actually gotten famous. And besides, as they say, ';Beware the advice of successful people, for they do not desire company.';)





    Break a leg.
    Your dream should be, to become an actress. Not a famous actress.





    If you focus on ';being famous'; you will lose the ';heart'; of what it means to be an actress. Stop wanting it badly, when want something badly, we lose it.
    Real, genuine persistence will be rewarded--but not necessarily by fame. You have to give up on the dream of fame--because it isn't something you have any control over.





    What you do have control over--how honestly you work in what you do, how reliable you are when you are cast, how many people get to see your headshot or resume or card, etc. You just need to keep going to auditions, get an agent who will believe in you and put you out there, be opportunistic, be proactive in sending your stuff around. Eventually, you will get a reputation for being dependable and solid.





    But star quality--that comes from being in the right place at the right time. It's never likely to happen, but it's more likely to happen when you're working a lot.





    And then, the value of what you do. You can't control whether you are good or not. That is determined by the play, by the production, your fellow actors, a whole host of things. But you can always be committed and honest. Be that.





    Congrats on the good work. Keep your chin up, and be ready to take chances when they come your way.
    No you AREN'T like somebody else. ALWAYS remeber that. If you have the urge to act, you WILL get there. I know that sounds stupid, but at least in this case I know that it's true. Alot of other actresses out there are totally fake, but the ones who actaully WANT it WILL make it!


    Check out this website: http://www.starsearchcasting.com


    And please, don't give up on your dream... you can do it!
    YOU ARE CRAZY GIRL
    Keep auditioning, taking classes and go to school for it. You don't say how old you are, but honestly, go to college/university for it as well to learn more, and you can even learn more about stagecraft/lighting/etc. to earn a bit of money and make you more of a 'renaissance' theatre person who can lend a hand behind the scenes on smaller projects (and also to make some cash in between gigs).

    I'm very interested in breaking into pharmaceutical sales. Can anyone offer any advice?

    I have a strong resume with a background in sales, marketing and management, so I know I can meet the qualifications. However, this just seems like a difficult field to break into. Any advice would be welcome.I'm very interested in breaking into pharmaceutical sales. Can anyone offer any advice?
    Below is a copy of an answer I posted recently in response to a question similar to yours. Hope it helps.








    Best Answer - Chosen by Asker





    Why would you want to get into pharmaceutical sales? What motivated you into it? Who/what influenced you? What do you know about the industry, the companies, the products? What do you know about the job? What have you done so far to prepare yourself for a career in pharmaceutical sales? Ask yourself these questions now because if you are interviewed, the hiring manager is going to ask you these same questions. In getting to know you, your work experience and your skills, they like to ask questions that require answers given in the STAR format (what was the Situation or Task, what Action did you take to solve it, and what was/were the Result(s)).





    Below are the basic qualifications pharma companies look for in a candidate:





    1. A 4-year bachelors degree with excellent grades (in any field, although science may help)


    2. At least 2 years of successful, documented, business-to-business sales experience


    3. A good driving record


    4. A good credit background


    5. Passion and personality





    I recommend that you check out opportunities with contract companies like PDI, InVentiv and Innovex. These companies contract with big pharma companies by providing supplemental sales force. This would be a good and ';easier'; way for you to get your foot in the door rather than trying it out directly with big pharma companies.





    Yes, I recommend this profession to anyone with the above qualifications and not afraid to work hard and long hours to reap the many rewards provided by this profession.





    Good luck!I'm very interested in breaking into pharmaceutical sales. Can anyone offer any advice?
    Why do you want to break into this field?





    I ask it not to be mean, but just to get you to examine your motives and to get to know the field better. I spent my years in college and immediately after building up for a career in the pharmaceutical sales industry. I was so excited when I got my first job. However, my ';dream job'; soon turned out to be a nightmare.





    It's going to be hard to break in these days with so many companies letting go. Have you heard about the massive (5,000+) layoffs that most companies have been doing? You will be overshadowed by the tens of thousands of seasoned drug reps who are currently out of work and clamoring for the positions you want.





    Do you understand how the sales metrics work?


    Getting into ';no-see'; doctors' offices?


    How to deal with a receptionist who shuts you down just because you can't bring pens/clocks/notepads/staplers to the office anymore?


    What about doctors chewing you out because they don't like the free lunch you just brought the entire office?


    What about places where you have terrible formulary coverage and the doctor won't prescribe because of the cost?


    Can you even get in to see the doctor and explain your products benefits?


    Are you willing to work 80 hours a week, Saturdays included, just to be told that you aren't ';working smart'; enough because your numbers are awful?


    Will you drive 300 miles/day to make 10 calls from 8-5 and then spend 4 hours in the evening calling on pharmacies to stock your product?


    Can you deal with someone constantly threatening to ';get your numbers up or else';, even when you're working your tail off?





    I wasted 2 years of my life in a nightmare doing this job and would not recommend it to anyone.
    take some courses in prepharm: bio, chem, neuro, etc

    Can someone give me any advice on Basic Discus Fish Care?

    I'm planning on getting some.Can someone give me any advice on Basic Discus Fish Care?
    - 1 fish per 10 gallons





    - 28c/82fh water temp





    - Nitrates %26gt;10ppm, ammonia 0, nitrites 0





    - High protein diet





    - Ph best on the acidic side but if 'stable' can live with a more alkaline rangeCan someone give me any advice on Basic Discus Fish Care?
    Well, the best advice I can give you is to buy a book on them and read it cover to cover before getting them. Basics:





    At least a 50 gallon for a pair or a 100 gallon for a group





    A pair is a breeding pair, not just two random fish





    Preferably kept in a nicely planted tank





    Best kept with calm, low-waste tankmates, but better kept in a species tank when first starting out with them





    Do best in water heated to about 80-84 degrees and a ph of neutral or less





    Absolutely must have clean, clean water. Require understocked tanks (no inch per gallon nonsense with these guys) and well maintained tanks. These fish are known for being delicate. They are actually rather tolerant of things like ph, but are very intolerant of dirty water.





    Not good for first fish, these are much more suitable to experienced keepers.
    I use to raise Discus.At the time I got into it,they were the most expensive fresh water fish you could buy.Let me start out by saying that they are a lot of work and care to maintain them.My tank was strictly a Discus tank.They require frequent water changes and a varied diet.The best thing you can do is to get a book on them and read,read,read.They like a warm tank,at least 82 degrees.Every time you do a water change,you must put in stress coat.I had live plants in my tank.When I fed them,I'd give them live worms,frozen beef heart and live brine shrimp along with live worms.I invested a lot of money in them.They are a beautiful fish but if you don't know what your doing with them then your going to be in trouble.They need to be raised in a big tank.Mine was a 90 gallon.There's a lot that can go wrong,I found it to be a full time job.If this is your first tank then I would suggest you start off with some basic tropical fish and even then,you need to know what gets along with what.Some fish lay eggs and some bear their young live.You have to have the commitment and time to raise these fish.They are a real challenge to care for.Hope this helps.

    Can anyone give me some advice on buying furniture for the first time? I am on a very tight budget.?

    I'm going to be a senior in college next year, and I'm moving into a smallish studio apartment off-campus. I don't have a lot of money (starving college student), so I'm looking for less expensive items (preferably used so it won't be so bad if they get stains or something). Does anyone have any suggestions on where I should look for good deals on furniture, especially beds and matresses? (My twin-sized bed at home is too small to use when my boyfriend comes to visit, so I need to find a bigger one)


    Any advice you can give will be greatly appreciated.Can anyone give me some advice on buying furniture for the first time? I am on a very tight budget.?
    I would advise you to spend the little money you have on a new bed. Never buy a used one, because you don't know if it will come complete with bed bugs, lice or something else horrible. Buy the mattress and box spring, and put it on the floor. You can buy a bed frame later when you get some more money. Someone here will probably come up with a good idea for a cheap bed.


    Furniture can be easily acquired at garage and yard sales, sales by students leaving campus, and places like Goodwill stores. You can get some a cable spool that is used to hold telephone wire and throw a piece of fabric over it to make a bedside or coffee table. Book shelves can be made from boards and bricks or spray painted cinder blocks.Can anyone give me some advice on buying furniture for the first time? I am on a very tight budget.?
    any thrift store should be your hunting grounds, garage sales, free stuff in the paper or the under 100 $ section if you have it. check the boards at local grocery stores for good deals and of course talk to family members incase they are throwing things away. even if the stuff is ugly you can always spruce it up with some new fabric and a few accent pillows. as for a bed, why not try a futon and buy an extra piece of foam it will be cushy and comfy and best of all you might be able to pick up a cheap one by checking out thrift stores. happy hunting!!
    sam's club, BJ's, and Salvation army and Good will.
    go too craigslist in your state they have used items .and alot of things on there are very nice. good luck! www.craigslist.com
    I am also on a tight budget and what I have done is shop at yard sales. The only problem with yard sales is that you have to have a truck and someone to help you take it home. I bought my living room furniture from someone who was advertising in the classified ads of my local newspaper. I got a great deal. I have been buying used furniture for about 10 years and have had good luck. Good luck to you and stay in school!!!
    are you in the uk? try your local freecycle online.
    All good ideas... One correction is that its craigslist.org... If you want new stuff you cant beat ikea of course thoe its still not best on a budget yard sales are a hit or miss type deal... I would say craigslist is best especially if your in a college town chances are you will find alot of stuff on craigslist that other college students are trying to sell to move back home so there should be an assortement available... either way good luck
    1] Buy a good bed [ frame can be used, mattress /boxspring should be new ]


    2] Buy a table and at least two chairs- used ok [ for eating, studing, etc.]


    3] Sofa and comfy chair - used is OK, make sure is clean
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  • Can anyone offer some motivational advice, I've just stopped smoking ?

    I know the power of the mind has a lot to do with it, so any kind of mind power techniques that you think I may find useful would be great.


    Thank you.Can anyone offer some motivational advice, I've just stopped smoking ?
    Good on you! I quit smoking 8 months ago now and I feel fantastic, I have so much more energy!





    Just keep telling yourself that smoking is disgusting, imagine the smel of it and the acrid taste and talk yourself into thinking it is the absolute most disgusting thing ever. (pretty much hypnotising yourself while you are awake) Look at others smoking and the cigarette in their hand and really make yourself feel sick about it. Just keep thinking about the burning cancer stick smelling up your hand and turning your teeth yellow and wrinkling your skin. Imagine yourself in 20 years all wrinkly with yellow teeth, eyes and a hacking cough.





    It really does get easier. I also ate pretzels when I first quit, the long thin ones. I had a packet at work and in the car. It also helps to not be drunk or around others who smoke for a while. Its hard but damn it its worth it! I can run around lake burly griffin in canberra now, I couldn't even walk to the shops without being out of breath before! Stick to it. If you aren't already feeling better you will very soon! Look at the link below for some inspiration :) Go for it! edited to add, start going for walks in the fresh air or do sit ups whenever you feel like a smoke. It will do wonders for your fitness and you really do forget about the smoke.Can anyone offer some motivational advice, I've just stopped smoking ?
    Don't give up! Even if you feel the pang it passes quicker each time trust me its so worth it :)

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    It might sound weird bu try putting a soothing CD on and meditate, it really relaxes you and stops you thinking about things, it also helps to control your mind so you can block out cravings
    You may or may not feel withdrawal symptoms. Please consult a doctor (Respiratory medicine) to overcome it.
    Put the money you would have paid for your cigarettes into a jar, and watch the amount grow. After a few weeks go %26amp; treat yourself.





    Good luck
    chew lots of gum, eat!! but dont over-eat.. just keep thinking how better food tastes and how much healthier you feel. thats what helped me!

    How do I cut down meat from diet? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

    I am a meat lover. I love pork, cheicken, lobsters, beefs, ducks, fishes, seafood, eggs, etc.





    I don't like salad, or vegatable, or fruits. Although, I will eat them for the health. I enjoy having cook vegatable and some can fruits.





    Of course I love rice :)


    Sometimes, I think I eat too much meat. Please advice. What can I do to cute down amount of meats on my diet. Thank you.How do I cut down meat from diet? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    Hello Good Little Asian Girl - :-)


    I also love all the foods you said you enjoy.





    My advice is to eat these foods ONLY when you can buy the best products. For example, I now only buy the best cuts of beef - when I want beef for myself and my family.





    As a result, we enjoy our meal more, and we don't really spend more each week or month because (for budgeting purposes) have cut back on certain products.





    My personal advice is to do the same. Buy quality - but buy the product a little less often.How do I cut down meat from diet? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    eat less and less everyday...i am a vegetarien so lol
    Hi Good Little Asian Girl, I don't know where you do your shopping, but what I try to do is buy my vegetables first, and if they come to say, $ 4.00 total cost, then I only allow myself to spend this amount (eg $4.00) on meat or seafood, for example. I live in Australia and it seems to work well here, and I would be interested to know if others think it would work? I also make sure that I always buy really fresh vegies and try to mix green with red/orange, yellow and white, so that I get variety.


    Have you tried adding thinks like fish sauce, soy and oyster sauces to add flavour?
    if you really cant cut down the amount of meat, then i suggest you substitute the real meat with mok meat.


    that's the best way.
    As a fellow meat lover, I share your concern. For me the easiest way to reduce the amount of meat that I eat is to think of meat as a side dish or try to add it in small amounts. So I would add mushrooms, beans and other things to help fill me up. You may want to also explore trying different vegetables and fruits, I have found a few that I now love and eat all the time. Also it is not going to happen overnight so start slowly cutting down the portions of meat. After a year I now eat about 8 ounces of meat a day on average. Now if there is BBQ around I can eat my weight in meat and somedays I can go the whole day with out meat.





    Hope this helps.
    You know it pains me to read questions like this....... lol





    Its simply a matter or will power. Just decide youre not going to eat as much. But since you dont like the healthy stuff (aka veggies and fruits) youre left to eating sticks and leaves in the yard.





    Try tappering down on what youre eating. Seafood is really good for you so dont run away from that. Its really the red meat thats not so good for you. Eat it in moderation. You can still get protein from eggs, chicken and seafood. As with anything, enjoy in moderation and you will be ok!





    Good luck my litte meat eater!
    I love meat to!


    I know how you feel its a good source of protien (for a hypoglycemic like me) but horrible in fat! Do you like salad im addicted to it now because i tried cutting out sweets and meats! I no it can be hard trust me when the doctor said i couldnt eat sugar i cried for 4ever! But trust me if you find healthy alternitives you can eat meat once or twice a day! Try new vegitables or fruits mix them up and stuff mabe when your in the line a mcdonelleds wanting a hamburger think of your goal... If your trying to lose weight i would keep a pcture of a skinny model or something. Thats what i did! P.s. rice is a good choice if you have protien(not always meat) yopu can probley live off of it!


    PPS.SORRY IF I GOT OFF SUBJECT SOME...
    Cut down to a palm-sized portion, then gradually cut down further. Put more veggies on plate.


    Use a LITTLE meat and lots of veggies in a stir fry,,,serve on rice
    there are substitutes for meaty/protein filled food.





    the only problem with eating too much meat is too much protein for the kidneys to break down; honestly, muscle heads try their hardest to take in as much protein as they can and im sure you are not overdoing it, so meat shouldnt have to be cut out from your diet.


    BUT: there are other things that might satisfy you, like those veggie burgers, they're not that bad.

    Does anybody have any legal advice Regarding Obstructing a highway or other public thoroughfare?

    13-2906 Obstructing a highway or other public thoroughfare; classification, I got this ticket in Tempe Arizona, I would appreciate advice on how to go about beating this wrap. Any help would be great..Does anybody have any legal advice Regarding Obstructing a highway or other public thoroughfare?
    if you are in a minority tell them them you were staging a protest. if you are not in a minority pay the fine .Does anybody have any legal advice Regarding Obstructing a highway or other public thoroughfare?
    A ';wrap'; is not a ';rap';.





    You beat it by proving you weren't doing what they say you were.





    If you actually were, then you pay your fine and go about your business.

    Can you give me some advice on what plants are best to grow in shady places...?

    I'm thinking evergreens and also colourful annuals.Can you give me some advice on what plants are best to grow in shady places...?
    I have a border with Hosta of different colors and Astilbe, it looks great in the summer





    http://images.google.com/images?q=astilb鈥?/a>Can you give me some advice on what plants are best to grow in shady places...?
    You have been given the names of any number of shade loving plants,any of these should give you a good display of greenery.Colour %26amp; shade however posea tricky challenge,colours come into fiery display when they have their share of sun,so also flowering plants.


    I would suggest you add variety to the area by mixing in green %26amp; white or shades of grreen by planting varigated specimens ,break monotony by planting attractive shapes as you get in ferns %26amp; palms,also add visual interest by using stones or wood in attractibe shades %26amp; shapes.


    Survey a few local nurseries for plants %26amp; advise.
    I am blessed with a shady border :-( but there are lots of lovely plants for the area... Hosta (mentioned above), mecanopsis, Alchemilla mollis (lady's mantle), Lunaria annual 'Variegata', Euphorbia characias subsp. wulfennii, Ajuga reptans (colourful ground cover), Hedera helix 'Buttercup' (Ivy to climb up a fence), Hakonechloa macra 'Aureola' (variegated grass), Brunnera 'Dawsons White' (foliage interest), Angelica archangelica (for height), Rogersia pinnata (nice flowers), Tiarella cordifolia. I think you will struggle with colourful annuals because of lack of sun - bulbs would do OK though. Good luck :-)
    Try the below link, it is what I used when looking for something to put in shady areas and is great site.
    I have a very shady backyard garden and it is filled with hostas and ferns. I have struggled to have some color there. I am going to try impatiens this year based on my neighbor's advice. Maybe they can work for you as well.
    ferns are great. arrow leaf fern cold hardy to -25. also angel trumpet cold hardy to 10.
    Hosta It will grow any where.
    plastic ones
    try a fern or a hosta
    hai........

    Planning to sell my car,advice me required RTO related forms.?

    I am planning to sell my Car(Chennai) .Since this is my first time deal I don't know what all are the things I need to clear as a seller. Please advice me what all are the required RTO related forms we need to get signed and procedures for the same.Planning to sell my car,advice me required RTO related forms.?
    Sale deed you sign only when you have received full payment. If it is by cheque, sign only when the check has been en-cashed by the bank.


    Delivery note specifying the time when the buyer has taken delivery of the vehical. This is very important.If he gets involved in an accident and the car is still in your name, you can produce the delivery note to claim that you have given delivery and you are not liable for any crime committed after the time of delivery.Planning to sell my car,advice me required RTO related forms.?
    most places only thing you need is a tittle... you sign it under sellers name and they sign it under buyers name and you count your money remove your tags they are new owner

    Best face wrinkle cream is what I'm looking for, Anyone give me advice to find the best face wrinkle cream?

    Best face wrinkle cream is something I want to find. I wake up every morning %26amp; see the unwanted wrinkles that i want to get rid of. People tell me that I look older then my age which makes me feel down %26amp; depress. So any advice to find the best face wrinkle cream that has proven to work, I would greatly appreciate it.Best face wrinkle cream is what I'm looking for, Anyone give me advice to find the best face wrinkle cream?
    Best face wrinkle cream is something that you would not find easily to suit your skin condition. Everyone has different skin %26amp; may react differently to various type of anti-wrinkle cream products. Fortunately with similiar experience I've found the perfect formula that may work for you. To me it is the best face wrinkle cream that I've come across %26amp; people tell me that i look younger then my age which I''m very happy about. So I suggest you take a look yourself %26amp; see if its right for you.





    http://best-face-wrinkle-cream.comBest face wrinkle cream is what I'm looking for, Anyone give me advice to find the best face wrinkle cream?
    I've heard that Roc skincare is the best.


    http://www.rocskincare.com/anti-wrinkle.鈥?/a>





    you can get it at walgreens/walmart/cvs/etc. I've heard it's better than expensive department store brands, especially when it's on sale.





    good luck!
    wrinkle creams which contain snake venom are said to be very effective and can reduce wrinkles very quickly..





    for uk ;;


    there is supposed to be a new one coming out for only 拢5.99 :O








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    you can check the anti wrinkle cream here its just $6.95 and works pretty well..and great tips for general healthy skin care


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  • Could you please review my questions and answers and give me advice?

    Please review my questions and answers determining what kind of person am I? Will you please give me advice? It's a bit of work but well worth it. So who do you say I am?





    Best answer gets a secret bonus!Could you please review my questions and answers and give me advice?
    weird, educated, and bored. like most of the other people on here.(except the educated part)Could you please review my questions and answers and give me advice?
    You seemed normal to me. Your questions and answers seemed fine. Why do you ask? You wonder if you're somewhat close to losing your sanity? Don't worry... you're fine and I advice you to keep it up.


    But somehow your display pic is disturbing. Who is your favorite rock band? Heavy metal even?
    doing good keep it up
    Hmmm, this is a tricky one!!





    Well I have only skimmed through some of your answers and I have to say that you come across as being a person who has their head screwed on. You are comical, a little psychotic and also helpful where needed.


    I don't think your ID or the picture of Jack represents the 'true you' although it can be nice to hide behind a mask for a while.


    You want to be noticed as a bit of a 'loon' because your real life is quiet and the total opposite of your ID.





    My advice to you is to continue doing what you are doing. You are obviously having fun and enjoying yourself so why change?


    Maybe tone down the madness if you want to be taken seriously, but at the end of the day who cares what others think of you!!
    i don't see that you need any advice. as to who you are....well, i say you are someone who would be worth knowing as long as you don't have an ax in your hand!
    by simply looking at ur pic....i couldn't!
    Get out more. Talk to complete strangers about anything at all. If you see someone that could use a little help, give it to them.





    Since you chose the photo of Jack Nicholson in ';The Shining'; it would suggest, assuming you're NOT Jack Nicholson, that you're trying to give us the opinion you're a bit off. However, your questions suggest you're just bored and maybe a tad lazy as you could find at least some of the answers you seek quicker by just using web resources - unless maybe you don't know how which I doubt.





    Even your choice of a name suggests you're either trying to establish a certain persona or you have self-issues...
    Don't know who you are but I love your avatar it's my background picture on my computer.
    you seem and look like a real nute case
    I think your lonely but your pretty nice, you can be very mean when pushed, over all you have a great personality. A nice since of humor which is a good thing.

    Does any dancer have advice on how to perfect a double turn.?

    I'm about to try out for the dance team really soon. I think I have progressed a lot with my confidence and dancing ability. The only thing holding my back is I can't do a double turn on command. It happens sometimes but its not a guarantee. I'm also left handed and I'm assuming that plays a part in why I can't turn that well to the right. Help please, it would be much appreciated!Does any dancer have advice on how to perfect a double turn.?
    hold your center


    get your knee back


    spot


    get your passe`( i think thats how you spell it) higher


    make sure your arms are firm and round





    I hope this helpsDoes any dancer have advice on how to perfect a double turn.?
    -when your preparing for the turn plie a lot because that will help tremendously





    -and when you start turning push your toes into the ground because that will really help with balance and let you better!





    -also, keep practicing singles until you feel really comfortable and then just push yourself a little further like do 1 1/4 for a while, then 1 1/2 and progress on so that you feel really comfortable





    GOOD LUCK!! =]
    surprising as it seems, whether or not you're right or left handed has nothing to do with your turn. i am right handed but better at turning on my left foot. weird huh?


    anyway here's some tips on doing doubles:


    -spot! spot! spot!


    -after your prep, make sure you go straight up, right away. if you take time getting to your tallest point, you will lose your balance


    -turn on the ball of your foot by your big toe. turning with your weight by your pinky toe will also make you fall


    -make sure you have good ballet posture....shoulders down and back, butt tucked under, your body should be in a straight line, and stand tall, like someone is pulling you up by a string on your head.


    good luck!

    Can anyone give me advice on why my garage air compressor won't shut off?

    The compressor is a small 12 gallon 1hp unit from sears. I have hardly used it at all and the warranty just expired. The problem is that it will not shut off. It just keeps running. When the compressor is fully charged with air and I manually shut it off and turn the unit back on it is fine. But as soon as some of the air gets drained and the motor turns on again (like it's supposed to) it will not shut off automatically like it's supposed to once it gets fully charged. Has this ever happened to you on one of your garage air compressors? Any help would be appriciated. Thanks in advance.Can anyone give me advice on why my garage air compressor won't shut off?
    You need to readjust the ';cut-out'; pressure on the switch.





    It's a little challenging, but on the back of the cover for the switch is directions.Can anyone give me advice on why my garage air compressor won't shut off?
    If the pressure keeps going up into the red zone it's the regulator switch. If it keeps running, but the pressure doesn't keep climbing it could be worn out pistons or a leaky relief valve.
    If your air compressor is the kind with a regular piston air pump, and a steel tank, there will be an air pressure control switch on the tank, to keep the pump from making too much pressure and possibly blowing up the tank. That shut-off control switch on it-operated by air pressure build-up in the tank, might be bad.


    But, if it has the diaphragm compressor on it, then it is designed to run all the time, when its plugged in, or turned on.


    It may be idling, but not compressing the air, when you aren't using air. That type also has a pressure control switch, but it operates differently than the larger pump That switch allows the air to bypass the pump, but close as soon as you need air., but it keeps running all the time.
    take the cover off the pressure switch and see if there is anything loose in there. try to clean it / adjust it...


    there are contact points in there that might be sticking,


    and need to be filed..


    unplug it first...
    Pressure switch is bad. Not too expensive to replace. Any electrical supply house will have one.

    Can Someone Offer Some Advice About Getting Best Deals on a Cruise Ship vacation?

    Hi. I am interested in finding out what the best deals are to take a 3-4 day Carnival Cruise from Long Beach, CA to Mexico. I went online to do research and it is overwhelming on how or where to find the best rates, perks, upgrades, discounts, time to travel.





    So if someone out here is an experienced cruise ship traveler and knows how to get the best deals, could you please offer advice/links? Thanks for your helpCan Someone Offer Some Advice About Getting Best Deals on a Cruise Ship vacation?
    Go to a travel agent and let them find a cruise that suits your requirements. You might even get a good deal, but they do all the work, finding the cruise.


    Once you have your dates and a price, it is then a simple matter of looking on-line and seeing if you can find a better price.


    If you can't find a better price, go back to the TA.Can Someone Offer Some Advice About Getting Best Deals on a Cruise Ship vacation?
    I use ';Vacations to go'; as my cruise information center. They have almost tooo much info and great last minute offers for all the major cruise lines and all the destinations including nice cheap reposition cruises that have become much more popular in the past few years. The website is vtgmail@list.vacationstogo.com and I would recommend Laura at ext 7290 if you call their 800 number!!





    Look beyond Carnival unless you have 10 kids in tow.. Also, I hear thru the grapevine that one of the large cruise lines has fallen on their sword recently given published reports over denied boarding to a very pregnant lady and her family, a policy that the line changed after the family had purchased their tickets. Allegedly, so the story goes, the cruise line did not notify them of the change in their rules and denied their boarding on the day of departure. Last TV report was that this line has refused to provide either a refund or allow the family to rebook for another date!! Nothing like some great publicity on how family friendly a cruise line is if this story is true when they are trying to fill their boats in a tight economy. So, make sure you know all the policies before you book.





    Enjoy....
    i noticed that cruises are cheaper at beginning or end of a cruise season. example is if the ship is on its way to alaska, the cheapest cruise fare would be at the beginning or at the end of that certain cruise ship's season for alaska. and of course, last minute cruise booking are always way cheaper, so it's best to subscribe for a vacations to go alert.
    I would like to recommend





    http://booking.myhoneymoonpackages.com/n鈥?/a>





    It has lots of cruise deals categorised by destination, cruise lines etc. I am sure that you won't be disappointed by the details on that page.
    Well if you live in Canada..


    I work for Air Canada Vacations and can offer you a 10% discount on cruises if you book through me :)


    if ever you want rates/availability feel free to contact me


    nmaillet@vacv.com





    -Carnival Cruise


    Celebrity


    Disney


    Royal Caribbean


    Holland America


    Azamara


    Norwegian


    Dont be shy :)





    Again you must be a Canadian Resident... all prices are in CAD funds
    I know- all the info online is SO overwhelming. Would you like my travel agent's phone# and email address? She's SO helpful and works out of Austin, TX. I'd be happy to share it with you- and she can also get you an awesome deal and plan all the details for you at no extra cost.
    http://cs.cruisebase.com/cs/forms/cruise鈥?/a>
    Hi Mrfrudd2006,


    How are you? Here is where to get the best deals on all things Cruise Travel http://www.ytbtravel.com/exquisitescapes鈥?/a>





    I haven't found deals any better than this site.
    call the 800 number from carnivals website. i have found that booking through them gets me better deals than doing it online.


    i am leaving on one soon and i paid less than $100 a day for a four day cruise.
    This is a good site for discount info http://inexpensivecruises.net/
    I've been on 3 cruises and have booked them all thru vacationstogo.com they have good prices and you should at least check them out for comparison

    I would like some advice on buying a new printer please?

    I'd like it to be:


    compatible with an IMac


    wireless


    able to print photos (not just A4 size)


    a copier and scanner


    able to print straight from a memory card





    Any suggestions?I would like some advice on buying a new printer please?
    Go to www.epson.com and have a look, you will find something to buy there and cheap. The best warranty in the industry. Then, Get a CISS for your printer. It will save you TONS of MONEY, never change a cartridge again and it will pay for itself in a month.


    http://www.inkproducts.com/ink-store/I would like some advice on buying a new printer please?
    If you're looking for a reliable all-in-one inkjet with good quality output, a solid warranty and inexpensive ink, look at the Epson workforce, NX or Artisan series. The best warranty in the industry. For a year, Epson will fedex a replacement and pick up the old one should you need it.


    You might find the best value direct from epson.com Look at the workforce 600. I have the 500 and its a great machine but not wireless.





    You can get 11 free cartridges every month which each hold about triple the ink of Epson cartridges. This does not involve joining a club or mail-in rebates or committing to any other offer. I've done it for the past 5 months. Here are the details: http://www.ccs-digital.com/freeink.asp

    Can I get some advice on giving a good enema? My legs art to weak for me to stand up and I need to lay down.?

    I don't know how keep water from coming back out while waitiing for the evcuation.Can I get some advice on giving a good enema? My legs art to weak for me to stand up and I need to lay down.?
    You can lay down, but before you do, find something to hang the bag on so that it will gravity feed without backing up, like a hanger maybe? You may just need somebody to help you too. I took care of my mother with cancer and had to help her with hers. Good luck.Can I get some advice on giving a good enema? My legs art to weak for me to stand up and I need to lay down.?
    Hi David, if you are using a disposable type enema, they come with directions and two pictures that show positions. If you are using a bag type enema put a towel on the bathroom floor and hang the bag on a door knob, towel rack, toilet paper rack, etc. Lie on your left side with your right leg pulled up towards the chest. Remember, the height of the bag should not be over 18 inches above the hips.
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  • Saturday, August 21, 2010

    What's some good advice for a beginning investor?

    Keep in mind I know next to nothing about money, so any and all advice will be appreciated. Basically, I'm looking to know what would be some good directions for investment? Stock market? Foreign currencies? I honestly have no clue, and also, what types of people I could consult with for further advice - and who if anyone I should trust to invest my money. Thanks.What's some good advice for a beginning investor?
    You are not ready to invest unless you have bought your home. If you have $20,000 you can buy a home and the money you are squandering paying rent would end up taking care of you in your old age. If you have a home, $200 a month on the principal will make you richer than most of the stocks in the stock market.





    If you are financially well off and have $100,000 to fool around with. Put 75% of it in a mutual fund and use the funds manager to diversify as much as can be done. The remaining 25% can be invested as you feel like doing.





    In the long run, it is the base of taking care of home that will pull you out of problems.What's some good advice for a beginning investor?
    Look into DRIPs, Dividend ReInvestment Programs, for stocks. There are a number of different ways to do them. There are even some companies on the internet that help you. It is good if you are young and just beginning. Check out Sharebuilder, it does DRIPs.





    The stockmarket is a good place to start, along with savings bonds. Currency trading can be expensive and dangerous. Commodities can make big bucks, but it is real easy to loose everything. Real estate you can rent out is always a good investment. Even if you can't rent it out for the full payment of the loan, you can end up ahead.





    Check out Personal Finance for Dummies and Investing for Dummies, then move on to some other books.





    As for people you can trust to invest your money, check with your bank. As people you know and trust who they invest with. Word of mouth and reputation are things to on.
    If you are a beginner....stay away from foreign currency markets. I would start slow..read a few books..namely by Peter Lynch or Jim Cramer ( alot hate him...but he's pretty darn smart). I would also read the Wall St. Journal every day...it's an education in itself.





    I would recommend a two step approach. Read a book or two...read the Journal....and consult an advisor (some have minimums). Ask the advisor his/her background...such as education and assets under management. I give my clients this info before they can even ask me about an investment. They deserve to know.
    Some of the previous answers are giving you good advice. I would just add that two sites/mags that I found very useful from an educational point of view were: www.motleyfool.com and hte monthly magazine Smart Money (published by the Wall Street Journal, there's also a e-newsletter that they send out). Their reference material is helpful to learn terms, what to look for, etc.





    I've also only really purchase stocks in companies that I understand and probably would use. If I can't really understand what a product is for, I have stayed away. Diversification is also important.
    I would recommend you to invest some money in stocks and some money in foreign currencies. check the website below to learn more on stock trading and how to select the best shares and forex trading shown by experts.


    Hope it helps.





    http://money-review-site.com/shares.html





    http://money-review-site.com/investment.鈥?/a>
    These are just MY guidelines that I teach :





    #1) DO NOT listen to dipshits who tell you to spend your money rather than save or invest it. Taking advice from someone who does nothing but spend will get you no where fast !!!


    Limit time spent with those who do not agree with or understand why you want to invest.





    #2) You CAN teach yourself by reading everything you can find on money management and investing. Start slowly with a stock that you can buy directly from a company without a broker. Search for ';direct purchase plans'; here in the web for companies that offer this. There are 1000's of companies that offer this. AND some you can get into for as little as $50.oo.





    #3) DO not get frustrated thinking you have too little to anything with... it all has to start somewhere and even $100 is a start. Do not put off investing. Start and learn as you go. Befriend someone who is where you want to be and watch, listen %26amp; learn.





    #4) When you have gained some investing self esteem, start an online account with someone like ';scott trade'; where you only pay $7 a trade and no commissions on the amounts you make. Research a company and invest in things that are of iinterest to YOU and those around you. Look around to see what people are using everyday and will be using in the years to come then make the jump into a stock you think you will enjoy owning. (I have a scott trade account and have had nothing but a pleasant experience.)





    #5) DO NOT listen to morons who are scared and want to sell sell sell every time the ';nasdaq'; goes down. Those people are fools. The ';nasdaq'; DOES NOT run the investing world though some ignorant investors will have you believe different. You want to BUY when things are low and sell when high. When investing, the LOWS are where you will find fortune !!





    #6) If you know nothing of money, STAY the hell out of credit card debt !!! YOU are the one who makes the decisions regarding YOUR money so if you blow it, you have no one else to blame !!!





    #7) Investing isn't risky... fear and negativity are what is risky, they keep you forever backing away from opportunity. Learn to manage your fears and limit time spent with negative people.





    #8) Procrastination gets you no where... Start NOW and continue... Investing even a small amount every month adds up and soon your money is making money for you. I got my son started at age 13. He is now 20 and sitting better off than most 50 year olds.





    Dedication to you investments will prove healthy financially in the long run. If you are wanting to invest for a quick buck then be ready for some disappointment. Of course sometimes a good stock pick ( I know first hand and it is bliss $$$$ : ) ) will make you a nice sum in a short amount of time but you need to go into it not expecting it.





    #9) Diversify by doing a few different things. Go to your local bank or credit union and get a CD. Get some stock directly from the company, start an online account and buy your first stock, %26amp; get a mutual fund. In one year check where these are at and what has made you the most $$. Is the safty of the CD for YOU ? If you want more risk then move that money onto what you have researched and jump in.





    #10) TO SUMMARIZE: The biggest lesson is : if you don't start you will never know how well you would of done. You have to be the judge on who to take advice from and who is just talking the talk. Tread lightly and pay attention to those who are full of hot air. You have to listen to them as much as you would someone with great advice for you need to know what NOT to do as well.





    Get started NOW, even small amounts add up. Take a friend along for the ride but limit time spent with those who will hold you back in any way. Fear is contagious, keep it at bay.





    Read read read and try some different things to see what works for you.





    I best quit now or I will need to publish a book !





    : )





    Good luck with your financial future !!
    If you know very little, have a long-term horizon, and can make periodic contributions, your best bet is a highly diversified, low-cost mutual fund. Check out Vanguard or Fidelity.





    I'd say that's the way to start, until you've accumulated $100,000 in assets. In the meantime, learn something about stocks and bonds and maybe you'll be ready to complicate your portfolio. But if you haven't done your homework over the years, or simply are not competent in those areas, stick with a professional to invest your money for you, and accept that you'll pay a fee for their services.
    It depends! It depends on your financial situation, tolerance for risk, age, etc. If you know very little, you may be better off talking to a financial planner. Otherwise, research! Read books and newspapers. Search the internet. Talk to friends. There are so many ways to invest, but without knowing more about your personal situation it is hard to say what is right. Jim Cramer's books try to make things pretty simple to the average Joe kind of investor. But his are just one of many.


    Best of luck!
    Here are the responces of someone with the same question as you (and a good one at that).





    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    The answers you've recieved are good ones. The type of investment you should be in depends on several factors.





    First, is your risk tolerance. Could you stomache a 10% loss, 20% loss, or 30% loss without wanting to change your investments? You can minimize your risk and maximize your return by investing in a diverisified mutual fund with a low expense ratio.





    A second factor is your time horizon. When are you going to use the money? You probably don't want to take a lot of risk if you need the money soon. But you may want to take more risk if you are not going to use the money for a long time. Typically the longer your time horizon the more risk you should take. But remember, the more risk you take the more likely you are to take short term losses.





    The third factor is your required rate of return. How much do you want to make? Long term returns are directly tied to how much short-term risk you can stomache.





    You probably did not want a lesson in investments. You probably wanted to know where to actually put your money. Vanguard, Fidelity, and T. Rowe Price all offer diversified mutal funds with low expense ratios. If you have a long time horizon and are risk tolerant, then you want to consider the T. Rowe Price Spectrum Growth Fund. This is an excellent diversified growth fund. If you want little less risk then the Vanguard Wellington Fund is a good moderate-growth fund. If you are risk averse or have a short time horizon, then you may want to consider Vanguard Wellesley Income Fund. This is a good conserverative growth fund.





    Hope this helps.





    Good luck.
    First, and most important, take your time to learn about investing. There are some sites online that have basic tutorials on investing. Try investopedia.com It's an education site that gives you a lot of information.


    Second, don't just take someone else's advice because you think they know more than you do.


    Third, decide how aggressive you want to be....how much risk you want to take. If you're young, you can afford to take more risk to weather the ups and downs in the market.


    Fourth, never....never...never invest in only one stock. The market is very volatile, and you should balance your risks by diversifying your investments. Some stocks, some bonds, some cash in money markets.


    Fifth, as a new investor, I'd advise against buying any single stocks. Too volatile. Your best bet is to study about mutual funds where the fund company invests your money in a large variety of stocks and bonds to spread your risk. Start with an index fund (indexed to the market, like an S%26amp;P 500 Index Fund) which will perform about as good as the entire market does. I prefer to work with Fidelity. Go to Fidelity.com and read upon all their mutual funds. Invest in no-load mutual funds where they aren't charging you big bucks for each transaction.


    Sixth,.......I repeat, study and read about mutual funds, the market, stocks, bonds and learn about this stuff before you make any investments.


    Seventh.....you don't have to go thru a stock broker and pay big commissions. You can invest with a management company, like Fidelity, and pay very little in the way of fees. Remember, stock brokers make their money on commission by buying and selling your stocks, so there's an incentive to have you make as many moves as possible.


    These are just highlights.....start studying. Good luck.
    keep updated on good stocks and look ahead and take good risk

    I have really dry lips no matter what I use, what advice can anyone give me?

    I have used carmex, and any other chapstick's/lipglosses I can find, but it just takes it all in, and withen 20 minutes my lips are dry again. Please help!I have really dry lips no matter what I use, what advice can anyone give me?
    maybe try exfoliating them.


    you can do this by putting some petroleum jelly or chapstick on your lips and then rubbing a wet washcloth across them. it'll remove the dead skin cells from your lips.


    when you're done, make sure to reapply the chapstick, and you should be good to go!I have really dry lips no matter what I use, what advice can anyone give me?
    Get some of the lip balm from LA Minerals. It works better than any balm I've ever used. Not all waxy feeling like carmex, has lotsa good ingredients. My lips stay moist for HOURS with it on.





    OK..here's the ingredients they listfor their raspberry cream one:





    Ingredients: Carthamus tinctoorius (Safflower) Oil, Apis mellifera (Beeswax), Ricinus communis (Palm Christi) Oil, Butyrospermun parkii (Shea) Butter, Cocos nucifera (Organic Coconut) Oil, Theobroma cacao (Cocoa) Butter, Tocopherol (Vitamin E), flavor, mica and Iron Oxide pigment.





    costs $3.95


    http://laminerals.com/la-lips
    Brush your lips with a toothbrush gently every night and morning and every night before you go to sleep put a thick layer of vaseline all over your lips, in the morning there will be hardly any left and just exfoliate them with your toothbrush, then during the day just use whatever chapstick you like.


    Hope this helps.
    rub with toothbrush gently in morning and at night.


    sounds weird, but works.


    also, try either burt's bees or blistex.


    with blistex, it feels so incredibly soft %26lt;- softest chapstick i've ever used


    but for burt's bees, when you put it on you can feel your lips healing. it sounds weird, but if you try it, you'll feel it.


    good luck.
    try ';soft lips'; chap stick. i put a little on then use my fingernail to scrape the dead skin of(gross i know but if u don't get it off then u'll never have soft lips. then put more on and really cover them with as much as u can. u can even layer some of the good chap sticks on top of each other -blistex, burt's bees, soft lips, carmax- use them all right before u go to bed and u wake up with kissably soft lips!!
    i love aquaphor healing ointment for your lips...also alot of my friend who were on or are on accutane use it for their lips (it really dries out your skin but aquaphor works really well for them).





    you can buy it at walgreens or cvs and its by the people who make eucerin lotion
    Babylotion.





    Or maybe you have an allergic reaction to something, and your mouth area is drying up.





    It happened to me. ):
    try yes to carrots


    it work for me =]


    answer mine?


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    BURT'S BEES BEESWAX LIPBALM.


    Best thing ever.


    Try it.


    It's...


    Amazing.


    Get it at Target.


    It WILL work.


    Also, try putting ice on them.



    Vaseline is a very good moisturizer to use on dry/chapped lips

    I'm comparin the plays death of a salesman to fences, and advice on how to start the intro para??

    in doing that my teacher also wanted us to ultimately determine which tragic figure do i sympathize with most and why. considering each characters actions affectin their destinies and their familes. i read both plays, i just dk where to start. advice? plz n ty.I'm comparin the plays death of a salesman to fences, and advice on how to start the intro para??
    Introduce your paper with a thesis statement, a strong statement that you can prove with evidence. It is not a simple statement of fact. A thesis statement should be the product of your own critical thinking after you have done some research. Your thesis statement will be the main idea of your entire project. It is your belief, right or wrong, that the rest of your paper will support.
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  • I need some legal advice. Does anyone out there know if you can file bankruptsy on private student loans?

    I know that you cannot on federal loans but these were private loans and did not have to be approved by the college I was attending. I really do not want to do this but I am really financially strapped right now. Would appreciate any advice.I need some legal advice. Does anyone out there know if you can file bankruptsy on private student loans?
    No, you can't file on private student loans either. Sorry.I need some legal advice. Does anyone out there know if you can file bankruptsy on private student loans?
    I see, well there is a way to go around it. Instead of filing bankruptcy you can consolidated your student loan. A lot of students are following this website.. and they got not only loans but $10,000 grant, a help from the government . If you ask it you will get it.. check it out

    Can anyone give good advice on puberty?

    I am 18 and I have only just found out the reason I am finding life difficult. It is because I am in the deep stages of adolescence.





    When will I feel comfortable in my own skin?





    When will I feel sexy enough to pluck up the courage to get a girlfriend?Can anyone give good advice on puberty?
    when you stop acting like a pussy..... its not jus something that happens and your confident no one really is that condfident when asking a girl out for the first time jus go for it.... do it like a man with confidenceCan anyone give good advice on puberty?
    its simple. there are times to be serious, and times for play. girls wont go out with immature guys. girls want guys that are funny but not immature funny. it will come along on its own.

    What is the best advice you could give a new substitute teacher?

    Um...run away?





    Seriously, as someone said, don't take things personally. The kids will do what they can to get under your skin.





    Don't tell them anything personal about you, even if they ask, at least nothing true.





    Be firm in your requests, don't take any of the 'But so-and-so usually says it's OK...' Just tell them that so-and-so can allow them to do it as soon as they come back, but for that day, you are the one in charge and are not going to allow it to happen.





    So many substitute's are abused, and they let the kids tell them what is expected in the classroom. Assume it's your classroom if there aren't instructions left for you on what is and isn't allowed, and think of the five rules you would expect to be obeyed under those circumstances.





    Good luck.What is the best advice you could give a new substitute teacher?
    don't screw up. kids will try to get away with anything they can.What is the best advice you could give a new substitute teacher?
    DON'T ACT LIKE YOUR REPLACING THE TEACHER. I am in highschool and it ticks me off when a teacher comes in and starts acting like they own the classroom. You Don't. Be nice, but firm and don't stray from the directions the teacher left you. It's their class, let them decide how its taught.
    After looking over the plans of the 'real' teacher, (hopefully the person left some!!), give the lesson some deep thought. ou need to have enough plan for one half hour LONGEr than the class time. That way, you can chop and change.





    Have a totally unrelated game of some kind (while all are seated) under your belt, for emergency use only.
    You'd better buy some golf shoes...or we'll never get out of this alive.
    Be firm, but pleasant. Go in early and look over the plans well, so you know what your doing...be confident!
    Hope for the best, but expect the worst. Pray, hope, and wish that the students will respect you and won't walk all over you. Make sure they know who you are and you're not a force to be messed with. They're not suppose to like you and be all friendly with you. We're kids! Teenagers, including me, don't like school, especially one that involves using our brains.
    Three rules for the students: 1) Stay in your seat. 2) Stay in your seat. 3) Stay in your seat. Don't give any restroom passes. Bring your own Kleenex and hand sanitizer. Don't take things personally.
    be friendly to the students, but make shore they respect you.
    I am a substitute also. When the teacher leaves no lesson plan, talk technology for the students, they can all relate. Check out FreeSchoolHelp.com.





    Talk technology available to them, and how to use it. That is what I talk about, tech in the future, tech in the classroom, what they can now do with it, how they can do it, how they can use the resources out there and how it is growing everyday.





    This is something that is always relevent and something students of all ages are always interested in, and always changing a bit so its easy to have a discussion about, write about, think about, etc., etc. Really a great filler, when a filler is needed and a super good website!
    always stay in total control, stay elegant, respectful and knowledgeable, sus-out who the 'spirited members' are and also the weakest. keep your eye on the spirited, best usually to keep them busy, and keep an eye on the weakest to make sure they are included. if you make things fun and interesting at the same time , you'll have them in the palm of your hand, good luck
    get a gun
    Go in the class let them know who you are and be fair but firm.
    Expect the unexpected. Subtitutes get abused. But as long as you expect it you should be ok. Just like prison scenario......look to go in there and kill someone the first day to get respect. Anyone messing around.....send em to the office right away.
    1. Follow the guidelines left by the teacher.


    2. Leave specific notes about anything that happens. Make sure to mention what happened, who was involved, and what (if anything) you did. This should be more than just discipline problems. Write notes if you encountered problems following the teacher's guidelines, etc.


    3. Remember, a good teacher can be friendly and the students' friend, but should never be their pal.





    Good luck
    As a teacher I truly appreciate the good substitute teachers who will follow the lesson plans, but can also be flexible and go with the flow. Although I always try to leave extensive lesson plans, there are often situations that could not be foreseen. A tantrum, a sick child, squabbles, an assembly.





    What is a good sub? Someone who takes charge and has excellent control over the classroom by immediately establishing rules and consequences; who knows that students will try anything they would not normally get away with; who is consistent and fair; who retains the structure that the teacher set up and follows the lesson plans; who is actively engaged with the students; who is poised and calm and does not become angry or frustrated.





    I have had my share of bad subs, too. A bad sub lets kids run the classroom; he sits behind the desk and reads the paper while the kids are supposed to do their work; he is oblivious to the chaos; he considers it babysitting; he loses control and yells; he pops in a video and calls it teaching.





    You get the picture. I have a list next to my phone with the good, the bad, and the ugly. The good ones always get called back for more jobs. Teachers pass their names on to other teachers. They are treasured like gold. Come to think of it, the names of the bad ones are passed along, too, with a red flag warning.





    Get a classroom discipline book. They have them in teacher stores. They even have them for subs. Read it, study it, memorize it. Good luck!!
    I'll repeat what others have said: Don't take things personally.





    It took me a long time to realize that when students were disrespectful to me that it wasn't to me as a person, they were reacting to ';The Teacher';. I just happened to be the person in the classroom who had that role.