A little advice for my long distance relationship?

I live in California and he lives in Louisiana. He wants to move to California to be with me. I love him a lot.But you guys think this will work out?A little advice for my long distance relationship?
I live in California - and my husband is from Louisiana (Baton Rouge)





We had a long distance relationship for a year before he moved out to California to be with me.





We've been married for just short of 10 years.





If it's love it's worth waiting for and things will work out when the time is right.





Good LuckA little advice for my long distance relationship?
I personally, don't mind long distance relationships as long as both people are commiting themselves fully to the relationship. When you're apart you are more focused on your job/school, and your friends which is good. Plus distance makes the heart grow fonder :) it will be more special when you see eachother, just make sure that happens at least a few times a year.
Long distance relationships are meant to be temporary. Either it ends in someone moving, or someone moving on. If you guys are younger, and he will not be independent and able to move for several years, I would be worried, because the longer you wait to be together, the less chance of it working out.
Yes, I do. I have had many long distance relationships and the one I am currently in has been amazing. We have been together for a while and he's a Marine. That's a tough relationship to handle.





But as to my opinion, I think you should go for it. It's one of the most rewarding things. It's a myth that long distance relationships hardly work out. Time is a concept you make and distance is only as far as you make it out to be. If you both are willing to put in equal effort, then there is no reason to worry about your relationship.





A long distance relationship is just like a close distance relationship or a normal relationship. It's not as complicated as people make it out to be. The relationship itself isn't complicated by any means, it's the people in it that make it complicated. If you want to be together make it happen, don't let distance or time get in your way. Don't find excuses to break it down.





I'm not saying that these relationships are perfect but they are by no means impossible. Sometimes you have to take a risk and if you really want to be with him make it happen. Ignore those who shut you down and put you down. Surround yourself with support.





Here's a website that will help you out.





www.lovingfromadistance.com
Actually, you can answer it yourself:








1) have you ever imagined what your children would look like?


2) can you imagine waking up next to him, having a terrible flu and/or hangover, looking like something from under a frying pan, sneezing and swollen, and you wouldn't feel self conscious?


3) does he know your greatest fear?


4) would he be the first person you call in whatever situation?


5) have you been completely faithful, even in flirting terms, while he is away?








If you answered ';yes'; to at least three, you'll work it out. The main thing is not to worry and go with the flow. What's meant to be, will be
ending because of long distance is just an excuse. It has almost the same success rate as close distance it's just that when it breaks up they always use the excuse about it being because of the distance. Usually the distance creates more closeness because you tend to talk more.
yea


my boyfriend and i are an example


me in jersey


him in new york


i used to be in nyc but i moved to nj


we never see each other because i switched schools


were still together


we have been for a year
depending on how long you know each other, moving and living together is a big step. Think about all the steps, financially also. Talk to each other about every step so each knows what will happen.


Good luck!
It depends on how mature you both are and how stable your relationship is. Long distance ones are hard, but they are possible. Good luck.
only if he gets a job and apartment.


do not live together right away.


allow him to prove he is self sufficient and can be responsible


love it nice but it don't pay the bills
Honestly just from my own experience... No... I've been in many long distance relationships and that's the reason I hate them now XD They hardly EVER end well... Do what you feel is right though ^^ Maybe he IS worth a chance...





The best of luck!
no it wouldnt. i have a friend in that same situation and its kinda silly to date some1 out of state.that takes all the fun oput of dating.basicly u guess are pen pals and phone buddies
I do not know! I have been married 3 years-Me in Iraq and my wife in Thailand. I see her every 4 months and it works for us.
If its love hunny bun then yes.... =] it will find a way just try to help it along........ dont listen to anyone else but urself...
No.
if you both really love each other, then yea its obviously going to.
you'll never know until you try