Monday, July 26, 2010

How has time repeated itself like this? Me and my fiance are on rough ground again. Any advice?

After ten months of dating my boyfriend we broke up with eachother because for some reason we couldn't stand eachother because of little things that no one else noticed and when we got back together everything was perfect for so long but almost the same time this year we're on the same path and I don't know what to do. I don't even know why we're annoying eachother so much when we're doing nothing different. I would appreciate ANY advice on this.How has time repeated itself like this? Me and my fiance are on rough ground again. Any advice?
Is just possible that you're not suited for one another. There has to be a reason why you get along OK for a short period of time, then suddenly things all change. To me, IF you truly where happy, then your love for one another would be growing deeper instead of having these problems after being together for a period of time. You really should be getting closer as time goes by instead of ';annoying'; one another, There's a reason for this. I'd try to get to the bottom of it, figure out just which way you want to go try your best. BOTH of you must figure out what you really do want. IF you decide it's just NOT going to work out, he'd be feeling the SAME way as you, why should you stay together when the two of you aren't truly meant to be. You both could split up, live separate lives %26amp; go for a new beginning. You must decide what's the best for both of you Better to find out now than after it's too late. Best to both of you...:)How has time repeated itself like this? Me and my fiance are on rough ground again. Any advice?
When you broke up, you had the right idea. You had realized that it just wasn't working between the two of you, and you did the only sensible thing in the circumstances. So why in the name of all that is sane did you then decide to get back together and repeat the cycle? Did you have some extra time to waste or what? Nothing was going to change because you and him are still the same people, and still as incompatible as you were before. Break up again and this time move on.
Spending too much time laying around watching tv, playing video games, once in a while spice it up, get dressed up cook a nice meal, go and pick a dandelion for a flower on the table, leave little love notes in the fridgeor on his pillow, thinking of you, the first time we met, the first time we went snow boarding or whatever.





Think back to things you liked to do as little kids,





Just get out there and go for a long walk by the river, don't say anything, hold his hand, hug for no reason, you are a long time dead so think about it, so what if theres crumbs on the table, wipe them up, maybe bf might not be there then what.
Since you say that your doing nothing different, maybe the answer is to do something different, the definition of insanity is repeating the same mistakes and expecting a different result.
If you don't solve this problem, it will always creep up in your marriage. Communication is KEY for a healthy relationship!!
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