Maybe it's the mid 30's sexuality thing happening. I've heard that women's sexual desire when they're in their 30's can skyrocket and sometimes it can lead to thoughts not only about men but sex in general, even if it includes women. It doesn't mean you are actually gay or bi though.I need and Intelligent and useful advice please?
Do you want to act on your feelings?
Could you picture yourself sexually involved with a woman?
...Because I think that's an important distinction.
If you can appreciate the female form and enjoy looking at it, it's perfectly understandable.
It doesn't make you ';gay'; to enjoy looking at other women.
If you want to act on those impulses and engage in actual sexual activity with another woman, then it becomes something else.
Maybe you're just bi-sexual.
Maybe you just need to accept the fact that you like the dudes AND the chicks.
It's become kind of a ';cool'; thing in society/popular culture for women to dig on other women.
Maybe you're just feeling a little societal push towards that end.
Women are beautiful to look at. The female body was made to be admired, especially ones that are beautiful to your eyes. Labels like ';Lesbian or Gay'; are just that ..Labels. The old argument was that folks were born that way. Well, we see that argument is now not true! How many ';gay'; men do you know that have been married to a woman and even have children? I can name 100's. If someone likes to have sex with men and woman, were they born bi sexual? I should say not. It's a total lie to try and get society to accept a behavior that is against everything that is designed to be between a married man and woman. If someone says anything different, than they are delusional. I also believe the same about having sex when someone is not married. The behavior is just as bad. They just don't want to accept the truth and love lies. The consequences are always the same. They love to be lied to and they hate the truth! Just wait and see the answers that these folks leave. They call loving people like me, hateful. I don't hate anyone. I only LOVE the truth... I have been where they are, but they haven't been where I am now! So don't judge without knowledge!
I know chicks who are turned on by watching women together but would never touch another woman in real life.
Seems well within the 'normal' range. Don't worry about it.
It's only a problem if you *want* to have sex with another woman, but are in a monogamous relationship.
Even then, your husband may be into it if this urge ever hits you, so even that wouldn't necessarily mean the end of the marriage, you know?
You seem overly worried about it. If you've never been into women before, chances are this is just something you like to watch and it'll never be anything more than that!
Watch it with your husband some time. Should kick things up a notch. Unless you know he's not into porn at all, then don't bother %26amp; keep it for yourself =o)
It's normal to find other women attracted. You might just want to try something new; that's life and we all go through it at one point or another. Take it from someone who has been there and still look at other women. I'm 29, a mother and married for 10 1/2 years. I LOVE my husband's D#@$ too and will NOT leave nor trade it in at all. But i find myself open to look at women too. I don't know why; it just happen, and trust me when i tell you i am not Gay (don't want to offend anyone).
Just hold you head up, don't be ashamed of your thoughts nor feelings, and keep looking until you decide what it is you want to do. But through all that I just said... PLEASE DO NOT BRING another CHICK INTO your MARRIAGE (your BED ROOM with YOU and YOUR HUSBAND)!!! then you are asking for trouble.
Porn is not reality by any stretch. It's all about fantasy. So, women in porno films don't really look like the rest of us. It can be really fascinating. And porn is made specifically to arouse.
I don't think it means you are interested in women. It just means you like looking at the ones in a porn movie. It's not like you are going to work and wanting to see what the women you work with look like naked.
We'll you might be bisexual. It can happen at anytime in life i think. Talk to your husband about how you feel and don't come to us because we can't help you much in this situation other than your spouse, its okay to watch it. But if you really love your husband do not divorce with him with a woman.
So as I said, talk to your spouse, its better than advices from us any day.
First of all, I think every woman has done something like that. second of all, if in fact you were a lesbian, you wouldn't be with your husband now would you? becasue you would have left him by now.
its just a random event, maybe you are just needing more ';love '; from your husband.
(i may only be 14 but trust me i know way more than you think)
Do not worry about it. you may be a bit bi-curious, and breasts are beautiful. It is natural to think that an individual's body is beautiful, especially when it is, and porno's are designed to elicit that reaction in people of both sexes.
Your curious, which by all means is normal within the human kind. Its our nature to wonder what it would be like in different situations. Now my advice to you would to tell your husband about this. Maybe you guys need to shake some things up!
i think you have to look deep in your heart, you may have feelings for a wider variety of people now.. but only you really know. so you have to really think about this
There is something missing in your relationship. You wouldn't be watching porn otherwise!
Just stop watching porn, there's the problem right there.
Try to fix your grammar and spelling instead, you'll come off much better that way.
Watch less porn and have more sex with your husband. Sex is not a spectator sport.
people can be bisexual too...
It's not completely unheard of. Plus, your husband would love the extra company
Yikes! Boredom maybe? Try some new positions with him.
You might be bisexual. So what? It's not the end of the world.
man for being 36 ur grammar is really bad
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